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Sex Jul 29, 2020

We Talked to 17 Straight Men About Pegging and Heres What They Had to Say

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We live in dynamic and liberal times where gender roles and institutions are merging and more people are finding the courage to explore and break existing boundaries in their lives, careers and in the bedroom too.

Pegging is one of those.

It involves the man deriving sexual pleasure from being penetrated anally with a strap-on. For most straight men, this topic is a no go area.

Pegging is rarely discussed among straight men because there’s a prevalent misconception about anal pleasure and homosexuality.

But, it is not an entirely new concept (bear in mind ancient Romans knew the many ways of wanton hedonism). A little foray into the biology of men shows that pegging is one of the most natural ways for men to achieve mind-blowing orgasms as the prostate gland (fondly called the male G-spot) is located under the bladder which is easily accessible during anal penetration.

Regardless of what the human biology says, there is the common belief that only homosexuals enjoy pegging, and as a straight man if you do, then it's something to be ashamed of.

Which is why when Amber Rose called Kanye a #Fingerinthebootyassbitch, social media went crazy about that. Like Kanye West? No!

In 2018, Faith Evans answered an intrusive question on the N.O.R.E. hosted podcast ‘DRINK CHAMPS,’ about whether or not Biggie Smalls tossed her salad to which she replied “it depends on who you’re asking.”

According to her, Biggie was definitely tossing her salad, and she can only speak for herself. But plot twist: “I might have ate his back,” she added.

As pegging gets more attention, more straight men are starting to understand that enjoying being penetrated is just another of the many ways to derive sexual pleasure and it doesn’t in anyway make you gay or less of a man.

We spoke to 17 straight men and asked if pegging was something they had ever experienced or would be open to experiencing and here's what they have to say;

Brown, 24

Back in Uni, I bought my girlfriend a 7inches long dildo just because. One day we were buzzing after eating too much space cakes and she suggested I take it up my ass. Honestly, that’s the best decision I’ve made while being high! Unfortunately, we broke up when I graduated and went to serve.

Tolu, 22

I used to think anal sex was only for gay people to be honest. But the day I tried it, i feel like my soul left my body. Whenever I’m talking to someone new, I always let them know I love taking it from the back. And I also have to convince them I’m not gay. Lmao.

Jamal, 28

Hahaha! I think I would love it though. I dey reason am sometimes but opportunity and chance haven’t come yet. I don't completely rule it out, one day, I’m sure lol.

Oluwole, 22

I didn’t think I’d love it at first. It took my ex-girlfriend almost 3 months to convince me to even allow her eat my ass. After that, I realised I liked stimulation in my butt more so it was only a matter of time. Since we broke up I haven’t really enjoyed sex that much.

Michael, 23

There’s something very crazy about looking back at your woman while she’s buried deep in your ass. It’s mind blowing!

Aminu, 23

I love it I can’t lie. I’ve not had one in me yet but I feel very mad when she’s eating my ass. The way my legs shake as if something is biting me. Now imagine the thing deep inside!

Peter, 26

Nah! For what? If I’m with someone and they even attempt to finger my butt, I’m not doing again.

Tobi, 25

Hahaha! For why? I’m not gay so why? Never!

MJ, 29

I enjoy butt play and all, but I have never had an entire strap-on. I don't think its gay, it's just not for me. Some people like their nipples touched, others don't. It's a matter of preference not sexuality.

Clem, 25

I can’t even imagine it. I’d rather die! What’s the difference? If you can take the dildo then you should just be taking real dick. What’s the difference?

Tade, 24

Can’t be me. I won’t even consider it. I’m not imagining it at all

Ahbib, 26

It’s against my religion anyways. It’s a big cancel for me. Never ever!

Kunle, 29

Tried it once, enjoyed it so much that i'm never trying it again. I know that sounds odd, but think about it. Today pegging, tomorrow what next?

Bimbo, 23

I’ve never even had anal sex, why will I want someone to be penetrating my own ass?

Olatunji, 26

Why? The orgasm I have from the regular sex is okay please. No, I won’t ever consider it.

Tomola, 25

Lmao! God forbid! My ancestors will turn in their graves. My grandfather will not even forgive me for answering this question, not to talk of doing it.

Richard, 31

I don't mind it actually. I am willing to try, but how do you convince a woman that you are not gay because you enjoy anal play?